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Camp Wonder: For kids, a week away from the stares When Francesca Tenconi turned 16, she didn't
ask for a Sweet 16 party and she didn't ask for any presents, although
no one deserved a good time as much as she did.
Tenconi, 24, was diagnosed at 11 with pemphigus
foliaceous, a skin disease that threatened her life and eventually
claimed most of her skin. During the four years it took to recover,
Tenconi learned the loneliness of having a severe skin disease. "It's hard to deal with because it's so visual,"
she says. "Kids at a toy store would look at me and question. It's
something that's very, very difficult to deal with." After the four years of treatment, Tenconi's skin grew back and the disease went into remission. For her 16th birthday, she didn't want any
lavish celebrations or gifts. Instead, she asked friends and family to
make a donation to a summer camp she was about to start to give
children suffering from severe skin diseases what they needed most: a
feeling of normalcy. At Camp Wonder, which is about to enter its
eighth summer, Tenconi gives 80 children each year a week to feel just
like any other kid, to be able to go swimming or to wear short sleeves
without having to constantly hear the whispers from strangers. For many first-time campers, the week at the camp in Livermore, Calif., at the end of June is their first time they feel comfortable in their own skin. "It's not just a week at camp," Tenconi says. "It's the beginning of friendships. It's the beginning of this new lease on life." When Tenconi came down with pemphigus
foliaceous, the following months became the loneliest of her life. She
spent three months in isolation, during which she lost 85% of her skin
before doctors diagnosed the rare, potentially fatal autoimmune
disease. "We sort of lived in a cocoon like a caterpillar," says her mother, Christine. "She couldn't do anything with her friends." Now, her Children's Skin Disease Foundation
provides full funding of almost $1,500 a child to attend the camp. With
support from individual donors and medical companies, she has sent
hundreds of kids to camp. Campers can interact with other children who are
experiencing the same pains and the same troubles fitting in with
others who do not understand that their skin diseases are not
contagious. For one week, their diseases stop defining them. "I think they talk about it so much during this
year, this is the one time they get to have fun and be themselves,"
says Stephanie Pham, 18, who was a camper two years ago before becoming
a counselor last summer. Almost 50 medical professionals volunteer to
make sure campers are safe and healthy enough to participate. Some
campers require bandage changes every day, which can be a painful
process that takes up to five hours. "It's exhausting. It's like running the
marathon, and I've done that, so I know what it feels like," says Jenny
Kim, one of the camp's co-founders and a dermatologist. "We just want
to make sure we're there for the children." Those children have become "Francesca's kids,"
as her mother describes it. Tenconi has become attached to the campers
who return year after year. "I have a camper who calls me twice a week, and
he tells me every week, 'I can't wait to come to camp,' " says Jennifer
Pham, 24, Stephanie's sister and a counselor the past two summers.
"Something happens up there during that one week that's magic." Tenconi, who hopes to open a second camp on the
East Coast, wants to become a pediatrician. She earned her
undergraduate degree in 2006 from Duke University, where she studied
the biological and psychological effects of chronic illness in
children. As she works for her foundation full time, she plans to
attend medical school soon. "Even before I was sick, I always wanted to be a
pediatrician," she says. "I've always really liked kids and have been
comfortable around them and wanted to help them. Having an illness so
young even reinforced that." For more information, visit the foundation's website at www.csdf.org.
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